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23 Oct When you're a woman with a male best friend, people think that you're up to something. They can't quite And no matter what happens, women with male best friends aren't pulling some kind of sexual long con. I'm not OKAY, THERE ARE A FEW THINGS THAT ARE DIFFERENT WITH YOUR MALE BFF. 21 Nov Having a guy best friend is awesome. They are funny, protective, they give you great advice and the only drama you two share is deciding whether you want pizza or Chinese for dinner. But, the one negative part about having a guy for a best friend is . 7 Reasons It's Actually Fine To Hook Up With A Guy Friend. You're already friends. Thinking of cashing in on some of those benefits? Tess Barker 07/09/ It happens to the best of us. You have a dude friend who you swear up and down is your “bro.” You look at him as a buddy, he looks at you as one of the guys.
Your friend is awesome: Before the actual hook-up happens, there are a couple important things to consider. To help you decide if hooking up with your friend is the best idea or not, consider these pros and cons! Hooking up with a friend could confirm if you both actually want to become more than friendssomething that you may have only realized because you did hook up. If you and your friend are in the same friend group, you might try to keep it a secret if it was a one-time deal and you want to move past it.
Too bad word travels fast. Whether your friends are weird because the dynamic of your group changed or they just want to push your buttons, be prepared to get the side comment or blatant joke about it.
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So much for keeping it on the DL. Clare says that despite hooking up with her close friend a few times, they were able to laugh it off because of their strong friendship. However, it could end up being totally awkward, even if you try to make it as non-awkward as possible. You could have to deal with anything from forced conversations to complete silence.
It was pretty devastating to me because I feel like he completely disregarded the fact that we were friends and that we could continue being friends without the weirdness.
Now we only argue when we talk. The worst-case scenario is that a hook-up ends a friendship. We broke it off…and we drifted apart naturally. Ultimately, you do have some control of the outcome and how you handle it. Whether the aftermath is positive or negative, communication after hooking up with a friend is key. Whether the experience was good or bad, you have to talk the next day.
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This means discussing if you want to tell your other friends, if it was a one-time thing or if you have feelings for each other. Use the fact that you know each other well to navigate the aftermath as smoothly as possible.
By weighing the pros and cons beforehand and knowing what to expect afterwards, you can successfully handle a friend hook-up, no matter how it turns out! Kasia pronounced "Kasha" recently graduated from Villanova University where she studied Communication.
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If you're both being honest about not wanting a relationship, rarely hooking up is your safest bet. To me that is more important that age differences. Take it from me: And this could change things for ever. One night we were watching a movie at my place with Chinese takeout, extremely casual, and for some reason I just wanted to see what it was like to kiss him, maybe to assure myself that I had no feelings for him and just thought he was hot.
By Kasia Jaworski in Dating. Posted Feb 05 - Tagged hooking up guy friends friends friends with benefits friends hook-up hook-ups dating relationships. We make it easier! Sign up for our newsletter to get the best of HC delivered to your inbox.
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Click here to cancel reply. You heard the kitten! Leave A Reply Click here to cancel reply. Then you get bored or lonely or just plain horny. I think the times are changing and we need to look at things differently and practically.
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